34 [M4F] #France #online deep connection and intellectual challenges

2025-04-28 07:12:34+00:00

Hello all,

I am a 34 man from France.

I love traveling across the world during my free time.

I have strong values. I love harmony, learning and spirituality.

I speak 4 languages. I love practicing them. :)

I am looking for someone who’s interested in sharing a common goal. Growing together. Learning from each others.

I like having someone thinking along with me and who likes to challenge their thoughts.

I don’t have requirements on location, language and physical appearance. I am sure we will work it out.

I’ve added a picture on my profile in case you would be interested.

Should you be interested in pursuing the conversation. Please reach out!

Looking forward to connecting with you!

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33 [M4F] - UK - Scottish #Online - Monday Morning Blues

2025-04-28 06:16:12+00:00

The worst day of the week is back upon us. Back to the grind after a long weekend, absolutely no will.

Looking to meet new folks, see how it goes. Mostly looking for longer term pals. WFH company.

33 - Scottish (Sorry, No kilt here) - Sarcasm runs fluently. Hint of self loathing. Big into Golf, Football, general nonsense, bit of gaming, Horror films (Americans, you do Halloween right..)

If any of this speaks to you feel free to give me a shout, please be around my age (40 and below) Location - Not so fussed about.

Let me know a bit about you in your opening message.

PS - What is the air speed velocity of an unladen swallow?

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41 [M4F] #scotland #online - Scottish guy looking for cool new friends from all around the world to chat to while working from home. Anyone around?

2025-04-28 05:59:12+00:00

Hi everyone. I'm 41 M from Scotland and have a pretty chilled working week from home this week. Wondered if there was anyone out there who might like to chat and see if we click for some banter and company? Brits, Aussies, Europeans, anyone really. It's cool talking to people from different cultures etc. A little about me..... I'm 6ft 1, brown hair, brown eyes, short beard, rugby player build. Play a few instruments. Like to paint. Anyone around and up for a chat? Hope to hear from someone soon. Cheers!

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35[M4F] #online/anywhere – Open-Minded, Music-Loving, and Up for interesting convo and maybe more!

2025-04-28 05:18:23+00:00

I’m Andrea, 35, from Italy, and I’d love to meet new people, share experiences, and see where things lead. I recently went through a breakup, but I’ve taken time to heal and grow. Now, I’m open to new friendships, meaningful conversations, and maybe even something deeper if it feels right.

I work from home, so I have plenty of time for good conversations—whether lighthearted and fun or deep and thoughtful. If you’re looking for someone to talk to, laugh with, or just share life’s ups and downs, I’d love to hear from you.

A little about me:

I have a deep love for music, especially rock and electronic, but I’m always curious to discover new sounds. Music has a way of connecting people, and I’d love to hear about the songs that mean something to you.

Food is another passion of mine. I enjoy trying new restaurants, but I also find joy in cooking and experimenting in the kitchen. There’s something special about sharing a meal, even if it’s just swapping recipes and cooking together from afar.

Skating and exploring nightlife bring me energy, whether it’s rolling through the city or spending time in a place with great music and good company. But I also appreciate quiet nights, just listening to music and having meaningful conversations.

One of the things closest to my heart is volunteering. I spend time at a charity center, listening to people’s stories and giving back however I can. It has taught me the value of kindness, connection, and understanding.

I’m here to find people who are open, genuine, and kind—those who appreciate deep conversations but also the simple joys of life. If anything I’ve shared resonates with you, send me a message. Let’s see where this journey takes us

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35 [M4F] London.Hope to find some sincere partners

2025-04-28 04:45:47+00:00

I'm trying to make some connections, we can start as friends,I'm a mixed race,I have an Asian face, I have been to many countries, I can accept long distance relationship, if we get along well, I will go to your side and try to live with you, I like fitness, reading, traveling, hiking, I don't have any bad habits, I smoke and drink occasionally, but I am not addicted, I have some tattoos, but not many, I like to grow some beard sometimes, but most of the time I don't have a beard, I used to have a dog, but because I am a bit busy with my work, now my parents help me take care of it, I also like pets, I support monogamy, if you want to chat, please write to me

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30 [F4M] #online #canada looking for a romantic partner

2025-04-28 04:40:18+00:00

Live in Vancouver, am attractive, fun, fit (and tall- 5’10), professionally employed, settled, self-sufficient, and secure. I love live music and never miss a good show; immediate future plan is all about enjoying life, growing professionally and getting a puppy. Gave up on dating apps in the area, and exploring Reddit dating wilderness to try something new.

Looking to connect with men who are also, attractive, fun, fit (and tall) professionally employed, settled, self-sufficient and secure. Open to different locations, but ability and willingness to travel to meet if we hit it off is a must.

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36 [M4F] East Coast/Online - Do you have a case of the Sunday Scaries?

2025-04-28 04:02:35+00:00

Hey everyone! Did you have a Sunday Funday? And now have a case of the Sunday Scaries? Or have you just had the Scaries all day?

It’s been a mixture for me today! Went out for a little while to hang with friends and now I’m laying in bed trying to find something to watch and forget tomorrow is Monday. Lol

For a little about me I’m a 36M, white, with blue eyes, brown hair and a slender build.

Personality wise I would describe myself as a mixture of sporty/nerdy, goofy/witty, flirty, empathetic and open minded.

Some of my interests are movies/tv, sports, nature (love the ocean), history, playing games and trying new foods.

Hope you’re having a great weekend so far and if you’re curious to see if we click then shoot me a chat!

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31 [F4M] NJ/NYC- Looking for someone who’s interesting enough to derail my Sunday plans

2025-04-28 03:49:20+00:00

Simple pleasures include rooftop drinks, live bands, Sunday brunches, getting a little too competitive over pool games, pretending I’m not romantic and then betraying myself dramatically.

You’ll probably like me if you’re into: - Coastal drives with bad playlists - Eating breakfast food at midnight - Wandering bookstores and arguing about whether the afterlife is real - Accidentally falling into existential conversations at 2am

I grew up wanting to be a mermaid princess, astronaut, detective, director, and writer — so yes, I’m either your dream girl or your villain origin story.

If you know a good rooftop bar or a bad diner, we’re already halfway there.

DM if you’re fun, emotionally literate (or trying), and still a little bit dangerous.

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35 [m4f] Lets make a playlist together

2025-04-28 03:47:13+00:00

Hey there — I’m a dude, and I’m here looking for real connection. Not just a quick chat or a swipe, but something with some depth… the kind of vibe where we can enjoy the process of getting to know each other, step by step.

I believe the best relationships are built on a mix of peace and play — someone to share the quiet, sweet moments with, and someone who’s also down to plan that next getaway or talk about the wild dreams we haven’t chased yet.

And yes, I’m open to wherever you’re located. For the right person, long distance doesn’t scare me one bit.

A little about me:

  • Staying active and working out — I’ve got a little extra, but I keep it moving.
  • Love to travel — whether it’s a passport stamp or just a road trip, I’m in.
  • Christian dude
  • I believe in building something slowly, intentionally, and with care.
  • Big fan of both meaningful conversations and hilarious nonsense — dual citizenship in both worlds.
  • Definitely the type to want an actual phone call once we’ve exchanged a few good laughs.

What I’m hoping for in you:

  • Loves to cuddle — I’m not afraid of affection, and I hope you aren’t either.
  • Someone who’s able to communicate their needs and enjoy open, adult conversations.
  • But also someone who can absolutely talk nonsense with me just for fun.
  • Open-minded, kind, and values friendship as the real foundation for something meaningful.
  • No race is off limits — it’s all about the energy we share.
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[M4F] 31 – Downtown Toronto – New in town, looking to meet someone :)

2025-04-28 03:45:18+00:00

Hey there! I'm a 31-year-old East Asian guy who recently moved to Toronto (about 3 months ago) and I’m still getting to know the city. I live downtown and figured this might be a good way to meet new people, maybe explore the city together, or just chat and see where things go.

I'm open to possibilities—whether it's friendship, something casual, or more serious if the vibe is right. I'm easygoing, enjoy good food, late-night walks, and trying new spots around the city. Still adjusting to Canadian life, so it'd be awesome to connect with someone local or who's been around a bit longer than I have.

If you're kind, curious, and looking for someone to share a laugh or a coffee with, send me a message. :)

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38 [M4F] NE Ohio - is it just me or is modern dating beyond busted?

2025-04-28 03:26:31+00:00

actually, you know what, never mind- it's me. i'm busted.

hello again redditors! i have returned once again after a long slumber to grace your subreddit with stilted, self-deprecating doomposting, AKA the only language I actually speak!

i'll get the basics out of the way quick- i'm 38, cis male, in the Cleveland suburban area, have never dated, and am intensely neurodivergent. i don't like to take or even look at pictures of myself, so reddit gives me a way to interact with new people without gating participation behind selfies like dating apps do. i suppose i've turned out half decent flying 100% solo for my entire adulthood but i mean i'm almost 40 and i admit to feeling a little bit of relationship FOMO, so here goes (if anything at all goes wrong because of this i will return to my reclusive ways and die a hermit so no pressure!!!!).

some stupid tidbits about me/conversation starters:

-cats are good. i have a cat. she is spoiled. i snuggle the cat. (dogs are fine too but my tolerance of noise and dog smells is pretty low, so most dogs probably aren't for me.)

-i hate to put negatives in these kinds of posts because i think they often come across as aggressive and mean, but it needs to be said- i have zero interest in children. zip. zilch. nada. i want none for myself and I have no interest in parenting yours. seriously, i would make a bad dad. you don't want this smoke.

-i work in tech so i dabble in many of the nerdy spectrum hobbies- gaming, reading stupid tech docs, writing craptacular code, smashing misbehaving routers with a hammer etc. i have a switch and xbox but 99.99% of my gaming is PC.

-i'm pretty settled and financially stable. bonus points if you are.

-some extra talking points in case you need any more: coffee, fitness, highly obscure sludge metal bands, fragrances, watches, terrible movies, cooking.

if any of this resonated with you feel free to chat or DM me, and thanks for reading.

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38 [F4M] #PA #USA - Be my reason to stop doomscrolling

2025-04-28 02:53:17+00:00

I live in SWPA. I just want some attention and someone to talk to that is interesting. If it develops into more, that’s cool. Just don’t be a creep. I want a real connection and real conversations with someone who has time to devote to such things.

I’m autistic with ADHD (both formally diagnosed as an adult) so I’d probably mesh well with another ND weirdo like myself.

Leftist, atheist. Prefer someone with a similar worldview.

I am 5’8”, a bit on the thicker side, short dark red pixie cut with facial piercings, stretched ears, and lots of tattoos - very alt lol. Willing to trade pics early.

My favorite band is Sleep Token. I play World of Warcraft. I enjoy pasta with cream sauce. Potatoes in any form are my love language. Also cheese. 420 friendly.

I’m a single mom, my kids are 11 and 8. Please don’t message me if you’re not single or you hate children.

Also prefer EST but I won’t demand it, haha.

Thanks for reading!

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32 [F4M] Let’s make small talk that accidentally turns into something interesting. Looking for a platonic spark

2025-04-28 02:14:25+00:00

Looking for an easy to talk to, educated or successful, platonic older guy who can hold a conversation. Maybe even banter! My interests include but aren’t limited to: art, design, cooking, baking, music, tv, museums, etc etc. Send me a message with your age, and what you do for work, as well as any other info you want to share :)

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35 [M4F] Vermont in the Spring

2025-04-28 02:10:43+00:00

Is there anything nicer than the oncoming of spring? Those sneaky warm days, the first feelings of a hot sun, the sound of birds and lawn mowers in the distance, the colorful sight of budding flowers. Nothing beats it here in New England.

I’m a finance professional, mostly working remote and looking for some short term or long term friends depending on how things click. I’m usually outside this time of year, working on my yard or heading out for a hike or run. There are tons of trails right by my house and I love the easy access.

So if you’re looking for a hiking buddy come on by! I’ve got a fridge full of local beer and cider too for some relaxation afterwards :P

Hope to hear from ya!

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30 [F4F] looking for friendship! Into skincare, interior design / entrepreneurship, self improvement. Lost all friends during covid and haven’t recovered, so I am lonely!

2025-04-28 02:03:19+00:00

Would love to find someone with similar interests! I have tried bumble and all that for my city but I just can’t make a connection…and since I don’t drink a ton anymore my social anxiety makes it really hard to start anything. Plus, I’ve never had to court a friend ya know? They’ve always just kind of..been around. But I feel like I rarely see people my age anymore.

I don’t have kids but my boyfriend does. I’m not huge on the kid life which is part of the issue - everyone I know with kids has their whole life consumed by it. Which makes sense..I just can’t relate.

Open to guy friendships as long as you are not into women romantically!

I own a business and am finishing my interior design degree so would love to find someone who is motivated too!

Here are other things I like…Lmk if any of these topics resonate w you!

Vindicta / self improvement and esthetics, pole dancing, hooping, music festivals, EDM, crafting

*Tl;dr: Lookjng for girl or gay guy friend! Interests include beauty, dancing, self improvement and business! *

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35[M4F] Ca/USA - Old punk/metal dude looking for someone cool

2025-04-28 00:37:59+00:00

Hello there!

Like the title says, I’m an old punk/metal dude that just looking for someone one cool. Still stuck in my punk and metal music from the 90s and 2000s. Theres probably better bands out there, but I’m stuck in my ways lol.

As for me, I’m just a guy that likes random, nerdy things. From what people have told me, I’m pretty heavily tattooed. I’m right around 6 feet tall, light brown hair, when it’s actually grown out. When im home and not out of town for work, I enjoy cooking, watching either random spooky stuff, or maybe even some Star Wars 🤷‍♂️ I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s worth a shot lol. I play video games here and there, so if you have any suggestions, I’m completely open!

I played drums for about 13 years, but due to a shoulder injury, the aspirations of being a musician are long gone lol. Now, I’m just a nerd that enjoys nerdy things. Just got a 3D printer, so that’s been taking up a lot of my time 😂

What I’m looking for? Well, some one that is just fun to talk to! Some one that can match the enthusiasm I have for Halloween, and not just the day, but the season of Halloween lol. Some one that can teach me something new and interesting, and someone that’s willing to learn new things too!

If any of this actually sounds remotely interesting to you, feel free to message me! And tell me your favorite movie quote!

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33 [M4F] nyc/anywhere - looking to be ghosted

2025-04-28 00:12:48+00:00

Hey, Maybe you could message me off this post, and we can start chatting a lot. Then we could get closer and closer, and hang out on voice and video chat every day, and play video games and watch things together. We could do this for almost 5 months straight, hanging out basically every day. We could be in like an online relationship, and plan to meet up some day. Then you can move apartments and be busy for two days, and not be able to chat much, understandably. Then you could text me randomly, even though I thought we were doing great, that you're no longer interested in pursuing a relationship with me, with no explanation.

Maybe we could talk all day for 2 or 3 days straight, and then go on a video call and hang out and talk one morning, and text the rest of the day. And you could tell me that you really enjoyed our video call too. And then say let's do it again tomorrow as well, then not respond tomorrow after you say good morning to me, and then I wait for you to respond, but you never do and then look at my friend list the next day and find out that you removed and blocked me from everything

Maybe we could talk for a couple days and be cool, and you could say I'll text you when I get back home so we can voice chat, and I'll say alright cool. Then you never do and the next day you text me saying oh sorry I didn't think you were interested in talking anymore and then remove/block me. And I can be confused because you said you were going to text me when you get home though?

Maybe could go on voice chat and you could seem really sweet and then after like 10 minutes you could say you have to take another call and you'll be right back, and end the call and instantly remove me

Maybe we could talk all night and really connect, and then chat all the next day while at work, and then you can stop responding mid day and never respond again

Maybe we could talk for four months, and then you could remove me off discord randomly

Maybe we could talk all day every day for a week and then one day completely change and not communicate what's wrong and then remove me

Maybe we could have a great conversation and have matching personalities and then we could go into a voice chat and play Terraria until 3 in the morning and have a good time, and then you never respond to me again

Maybe you could be the next person to join this list

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36 [F4M] - Philippines - Looking for a serious relationship. Must be open to voice calls.

2025-04-27 23:55:20+00:00

Born, raised and living in the Philippines. Single, never been married and have no kids.

I'm looking for a possible serious relationship for marriage with a single gentleman around my age. Someone who can meet in person.

5'6 and on the heavier side.

Emotional, clingy, jealous but fiercely faithful and loyal.

I love music and I play a few musical instrument. I enjoy long drives, reading, writing and watching series (mostly with subtitiles).

If you are looking for the same thing, please send a chat request with your age, location and a little info/intro about yourself. I won't reply to messages without any info.

PS: If you're not from here, that's fine, but you must be someone willing and able to meet me in person. You must also be open to regular voice/video calls.

Thanks and have a good day!

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31 [F4M] USA. My letter to you keeps getting lost in the mail.

2025-04-27 22:57:46+00:00

Dearest Reddit Doom-Scroller,

First of all, how dare you evade entertaining me for this long. The can only be forgiven by making me forget about work tomorrow. In return, I’ll make your life at least 1% more chaotic and fun. Satisfaction guaranteed or you can ghost me or whatever people do nowadays.

No pressure, no weird vibes, no planning on being together forever. I can ramble with the best of them or hear about your latest girl problems. We can make this a one night thing and never talk to each other again or be a constant for each other. I’m not picky.

Alrightyyyy, don’t make this weird and just chat me.

Love, Me.

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33 [M4F] Florida Looking for the love of my life!

2025-04-27 20:20:33+00:00

You know. The way life has been going I really should of lost a lot of these lovey dovey desires. But. Im. Well. Not really optimistic? More aware that this difficulty in finding someone is temporary. That me moving the way that I do. Achieving the things im setting out before myself that eventually ill find someone that doesn't make me want to play in traffic. I just wish they'd hurry up, shit is getting even weirder out here.

Anyway. Me.

Im 6'1. Single. I don't have any kids. I don't drink do drugs or smoke. I was trying to think what my vice could be and honestly it might be flavored beverages. I put a lot more money than you'd think into them each month. I mean I drink regular water too. But man.

I work out. And even if I didn't I do a lot of manual labor. I also read a fuck ton. Run my own gaming group. And more. More more. Always more with me. Im always trying to grow. Diligence and I go hand in hand.

I'll end it here.

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33 [M4F] UK / Online - British accent just for you

2025-04-27 20:12:04+00:00

Hey you, yes you. Don't go scrolling away. Stay right here with me! My name's Matt and I'm a university professor by day and I use my deep British accent to capture souls by night. Haha. I joke. Only you :)

You be the judge: https://voca.ro/18FYktatnEmA

I'm here to whisk you away on adventures across every topic under the sun. From the mysteries of the cosmos to the latest tech trends, there's nothing too big or small for my curious mind. I’m on a mission to learn it all and share a laugh or two along the way.

Stick around, because I'd love nothing more than to make you smile and perhaps even inspire you with a tale or two. So, let's dive in, shall we? The world’s our oyster, and I'm only a message away!

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37[F4R] Looking For New Friends

2025-04-27 19:50:35+00:00

37F, from the UK only looking for platonic friendship. Alternative, nerdy, weird (in a good way I think) looking for new people to talk to as making friends as an adult in the real world is hard! I'm married, have children, all that grown up stuff. I like gaming, watch way too much TV, love all things spooky and paranormal and am obsessed with Halloween. If you think we would get along feel free to message.

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33 [F4M] USA/ Anywhere - Looking for a long-term relationship or more friends

2025-04-27 18:55:55+00:00

I'm 33 years old, originally from Japan, currently living in the US, and I'd like to meet some like-minded people. A quick note about me - I have a stable job, and I love to cook in my free time to relax. I'm always trying new recipes, so if you also love good food and are willing to share, we might hit it off! Another of my hobbies is traveling, I love being on the road, it's relaxing, and I'm really looking forward to meeting some interesting, genuine people who share the same hobbies and passions as me.

Don't be shy, feel free to leave me a comment. Can't wait to connect with all of you! 😊

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38 [F4M] California - Looking for someone to chat with every day

2025-04-27 16:31:00+00:00

Hey!

I'm from sunny California and I'm here to meet some cool people and have fun conversations

I'm 38 and looking to meet some new people, especially people who are a little older than me

Here's a little about me and what I'm hoping to find. I'm looking for new friends with similar interests or just friends who I want to talk to for a long time

I'm 5'4" and 122 lbs. I like to learn, keep it real, and try new things but can be moody at times

My hobbies include ⦁ Reading ⦁ Traveling ⦁ Skiing ⦁ Hiking ⦁ Painting ⦁ Traveling ⦁ Golf My personality: outspoken, sunny, optimistic, strong

I just hope to meet someone who is kind and genuine. Distance doesn't matter to me, it's all about connection. Who knows where this will lead us?

Thanks for reading - hope you can say hi

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35[F4M] - #online - Live , Love and laughter Long-Distance, Genuine Connection Wanted

2025-04-27 13:35:29+00:00

I’m from India 35 F ,an anime lover, a Studio Ghibli movie fanatic, and a hardcore Star Wars fan. I also collect toys. We’ll settle in my career.I’m looking for a genuine connection—not something casual. Communication is key for me, and I believe in building trust and a real bond.

What I am looking for: Someone who values deep conversations and emotional connection. long-distance connection that could lead to something meaningful. Someone who’s also ready to take their time and invest in something real.

Tell me about yourself and what you’re looking for. If we click, I’d love to exchange pictures and get to know each other better!

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